"Now I wish to be his wife in seven more lifetimes.": Laxman and Puja's story
Hear from Laxman and Puja, a couple whose marriage has undergone a dramatic transformation since attending the couple sessions held by the gender-based violence project.
September's featured volunteer
Namaste! My name is Raj Karki. I’m volunteering as a Diffusion Advisor on VSO’s Gender-Based Violence Prevention and Response project in Nepal. I’m looking forward to keeping you up to date with how we’re getting on and how your support is making a lasting difference to the lives of women and girls here.
I’m delighted to be volunteering with VSO and to have the opportunity to share my experiences with you all. I’ve been in my role of Diffusion Advisor for just over a year, which has given me loads of opportunities to learn and grow, as well as use the knowledge I’ve gained over the years. Thank you for standing with me and helping to make a positive impact in my home country.
It is unacceptable that more than one in four women in Nepal experience gender-based violence in their lifetime. With your support, my colleagues and I are leading a range of prevention activities to stop violence against women and girls here. We’re doing this by running interactive sessions with couples, families, community groups and leaders to challenge social norms that value men and boys over women and girls. Working alongside other organisations, we’re part of an incredible movement to create long-lasting change.
September '23 volunteer update
One thing I love about working on the project is hearing how the work is transforming relationships and positively changing lives. Like Laxman and Puja's, who recently participated in a transformative 10-day couples session organised by the project. The sessions are held with couples to discuss and reflect on practices within their family and community. These help couples identify harmful attitudes and improve their understanding of gender-based violence.
The sessions have had a profound impact on Laxman and Puja’s marriage, and Laxman even said he has had a ‘personal revelation’!
LaxmanAfter attending the couple sessions, there has been a change in me.
Husband and father
Laxman previously believed that it was a woman's responsibility to stay home and do chores while men go to work. Since attending the sessions, he recognises there should be equal responsibility in household chores. As a result, Laxman is now putting wholehearted effort into supporting his wife. He helps her around the home and shares the responsibility of their children. His newfound awareness is bringing positive change to their daily lives, resulting in a more balanced and healthy partnership.
Hear from Laxman and Puja…
I hope you enjoy hearing from Laxman and Puja. It certainly motivates me to keep up the good work that we’re doing when I hear positive stories like these. I hope it shows how important your donations really are to VSO.
It also motivates me a lot when I receive your kind messages of well wishes and good luck. If you’ve previously left me a message, thank you so much. And if you’d like to get in touch or have a question, did you know you can leave me a message below? I’d love to hear from you!
Raj
VSO Diffusion Advisor, national volunteer tackling gender-based violence, Nepal.
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Your latest questions answered
Namaste Raj best wishes for your future & thank you for the wonderful work you have been doing.
Raj
Hello June,
Namaste, thank you for your wishes and I am glad that we have supporter like you.
Raj
Namaste, thank you for your wishes and I am glad that we have supporter like you.
Raj
Thank you for all you have done to help people in need over the last year
Raj
Hello Shirley,
Thank you for your support too and staying in touch.
Raj
Thank you for your support too and staying in touch.
Raj
Namaste - I just wanted to thank you for all the good work that you have done in Nepal & for helping me to see what my donations have done. I have loved reading your letters & am going to miss you but I wanted to send you my love & best wishes.
Raj
Dear June,
Namaste and thank you for supporting VSO. It’s your support that allowed volunteers like me to reach out to those communities and do the good things we did.
I am glad that you loved the letters and posts. It’s great to have supporters like you who are making the world a better place to live.
Take care and be happy too.
Raj.
Namaste and thank you for supporting VSO. It’s your support that allowed volunteers like me to reach out to those communities and do the good things we did.
I am glad that you loved the letters and posts. It’s great to have supporters like you who are making the world a better place to live.
Take care and be happy too.
Raj.
Did you know?
We bring about lasting change not by sending aid, but by working through volunteers to empower communities in some of the world’s poorest regions. You can read more about VSO’s areas of work and discover more about our projects here.
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